Submitted by KeyToTheStorm t3_127qwg7 in relationship_advice
Hey guys,
I (28M) had an awkward situation occur with an acquaintance (24F) last year.
Long story short: She took a liking to me, I didn’t catch on until months later; tension developed.
Ultimately, it was nothing serious and a miscommunication on both of our parts.
After some time had lapsed, I messaged her and apologized for what occurred and took responsibility for my errors.
However, she ignored my message.
I’m okay with this, but in the very near future, we’re going to run in to each other as we both frequent the same places.
I don’t know whether to approach her and let her know not to worry about the whole thing, or completely ignore her as I’ve already tried to rectify the situation?
If it isn’t resolved, there will forever be this awkward tension between us and I’m completely exhausted by it. I feel like I’m walking on egg shells having to dodge this person.
What should I do?
Thank you.
TLDR: Should I talk it out with her or ignore her?
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