followyourvalues t1_iuj1vz2 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:26 PM

Why did you exit the vehicle?

ChickieD t1_iuj29a3 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:28 PM

Look at you….blaming the victim.

followyourvalues t1_iuj2r12 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:32 PM

It sounds whack. The whole thing.

plush_paradox t1_iuj3635 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:34 PM

It’s not “whack” it’s my life. Why did i exit? to prevent a scene in public.

followyourvalues t1_iuj3bja wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:35 PM

It isn't public if it is in the car? If you weren't afraid he'd hurt you, why would you let him bully you in front of your kids?

followyourvalues t1_iuj3fqs wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:36 PM

The only way this scenario is not whack is if your relationship is wholly abusive and you don't recognize it.

If it isn't, just put a lock on your phone and stop doing what he tells you to do. There is a clear lack of mutual respect. So why do what he asks if he can't return the favor?

plush_paradox t1_iuj3yfr wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:40 PM

I’ve decided starting today my phone will be just as his is. Locked.

followyourvalues t1_iuj4y7r wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:46 PM

Good! I hope things improve, one way or another for you and yours.

plush_paradox t1_iuj5hox wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:50 PM

thank you! I hope so too. I just hope I can hangout with my kids in peace tonight