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plush_paradox t1_iuj3635 wrote

Reply to comment by followyourvalues in Asked my husband for his phone password….. by [deleted]

It’s not “whack” it’s my life. Why did i exit? to prevent a scene in public.

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followyourvalues t1_iuj3bja wrote

It isn't public if it is in the car? If you weren't afraid he'd hurt you, why would you let him bully you in front of your kids?

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followyourvalues t1_iuj3fqs wrote

The only way this scenario is not whack is if your relationship is wholly abusive and you don't recognize it.

If it isn't, just put a lock on your phone and stop doing what he tells you to do. There is a clear lack of mutual respect. So why do what he asks if he can't return the favor?

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plush_paradox t1_iuj3yfr wrote

I’ve decided starting today my phone will be just as his is. Locked.

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followyourvalues t1_iuj4y7r wrote

Good! I hope things improve, one way or another for you and yours.

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plush_paradox t1_iuj5hox wrote

thank you! I hope so too. I just hope I can hangout with my kids in peace tonight

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