By the age of 27 I realized that there are some things that are playful jokes and others that are shaming.

You’re an adult, maybe try acting like one.

I would be furious if my siblings teased me about something like this

The sensitivity is probably best explained like this: imagine you enjoy a thing. You are not asking for other‘s opinions, you just want to enjoy the thing in peace. In comes a nosy little cunt that is way too curious about what you are doing.

You don‘t mind too much, the cunt is interested, the cunt get information. Now the cunt has never heard about this thing being enjoyed, so the cunt voices their opinion.

You still don‘t mind. But now the cunt is insecure because you seemed to care so little for their opinion. So they start asking for other people‘s opinion on the thing you enjoy. Now suddenly, everyone is up in your business asking questions and giving out opinions you had never asked for.

The cunt does not even need to say any names, other people will put two and two together. Add to that the fact that the cunt, in their inexorable quest for judgement validation, has likely exacerbated things and misrepresented the thing you enjoy. Not through malintent, just through lack of knowledge.

The consequences range from mildly annoying to downright having legislature created to stop the thing you enjoy because some bigots can‘t live with the thought of you enjoying it.

Hope you get the idea.

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I'm with you its a sibling thing I doubt it's that deep to him if you did say something jokingly the comments are def harsh I would joke about this with my brother if this happened lol