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LizardManelli t1_iujon15 wrote

Liking pictures on social media & watching porn are not cheating. They might be a dealbreaker for you but forcing this “boundary” on your SO does not make it reasonable. You can’t police someone into submission, all you end up doing is causing resentment & secretive behaviour. Either date someone who has the same rigid rules or accept that this is not a realistic or healthy way to interact with your partner.

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NetworkPlus2224 t1_iujpcbp wrote

He has told me that if I were to do the same he would consider it cheating as well. So what do I take from that?

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robbyrandall t1_iujwnhc wrote

That he is a hypocrite and a guy. These things can be both true. Good luck finding someone that doesn't look, the next guy will just be hiding it better.

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