Honestly, he's disrespected you. As much as you want to forgive him and move on, its always going to be in the back of your head. Your perception of him has already been altered and he's continuing to push your boundaries.

A person can only take so much so the fact that you reacted the way you did can only tell yourself that you've had enough.

Find the strength within yourself to just leave and move on, its for your own best interest tbh.

Narcissists only get upset at you because they get caught up in their own actions, you've done everything right. Always trust your gut!