Submitted by Low_Programmer6258 t3_yint8u in relationship_advice
So I f (20) made a sex tape with a guy m(21). It's not high quality and it's very amateur home made porn. At the time it turned me on and it didn't seem like it would be an issue. My reasoning was that I can't ever really see us getting in a fight or any situation where he would use revenge porn against me. He also lives about an hour away in a different town so he knows no one I know and I know no one he knows. His dick is also in it ( not his face but mine is) though he was recording so that's why. So I also feel as if he wouldn't want his friends or people looking watching it. The only thing is in one of the videos he took he said " Look at how hot this shit is" and I heard him typing at another point ( though it could've been him putting in a password).
Do guys often share sex videos with friends/online even if they're in it too? Im just wondering if it’s likely he’ll share it.
SimpleBelgianLogic t1_iujjmev wrote
You will never know truly. People can act weird when their buttons are pushed.
If he's not your partner who you truly trust (and even then...), best to ask him to delete it.