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One-Championship-779 t1_iujkswu wrote

Go to the class, hobbies and skills are way harder to replace than a SO. Never give up self improvement for somone.

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blckdaliahhh t1_iujktfv wrote

There has to be more to the story here.

Does she have a reason to not trust you going?

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Adventurous-You-1750 t1_iujllhz wrote

Long story short we had plans for Halloween that she went back on because I cannot afford certain things so I decided to go to a class tonight like I do every Monday. And she said that wasn’t part of the plan and I’m fucking up her day even though we’re just gonna sit at her house and do nothing

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peakpenguins t1_iujm2zd wrote

Replying to Adventurous-You-1750 (#402,528)

Well, sounds like she at least wanted to spend Halloween with you even if you couldn't afford to do what she wanted to (which was what?)

If she's going to break up with you over it then I doubt this is the only problem in the relationship.

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mwise003 t1_iujmlwn wrote

Is this a pattern or one-off? Makes a big difference. Saw your other post about it being Halloween. If you're one of those guys that never deviates from the gym, then I get her frustration.

If she complains every time you go, then I see your frustration.

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BoldNalle t1_iujnvpy wrote

What ??? where is the rest of the story????

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JEH2003 t1_iujuuwk wrote

I don’t understand any of this. Is Halloween now a romantic holiday that must be spent with a SO? Does Hallmark know?

Is your jujitsu class all night? Can you not hang out with her after?

If you have no plans what difference does it make? Is she gonna miss trick or treating? I mean, how old are you guys, seriously?

This sounds like total manufactured drama and there must be more to it than this. Halloween certainly should not be a relationship deal breaker, this is just beyond.

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