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darodori t1_iuju7xs wrote

Before proposing would be a great time to find out how involved she thinks they should be in your relationship, and if that’s how you see your future, and if this is the kind of discussions you’re ok with going forward.

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BisquickNinja t1_iuk4lvl wrote

I can tell you from experience that this behavior won't get any better with age. They will push both you and her to have a baby as soon as possible. They don't care about you, they don't care about the baby, they care about how you make them look. How the baby makes them look.

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darodori t1_iuk7snm wrote

The behavior I was thinking that wasn’t going to get better was hers. She insists that he pay for their (parents) vacation, she has a room set aside for them, she says she’ll work on it but no progress has been made. I don’t think she’s changing either.

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