greyno02 t1_iujvawt wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:47 PM

Reply to comment by Practiccount in should I tell my girlfriend that her parents had lunch with me? by Practiccount

You didn't get lucky you are normal. What is NOT normal is not being able to go on holiday without mummy and daddy when she's almost 30. Are you really happy to never have a holiday without them? Do you think this will change once you're married? She needs to learn to set some boundaries.

Practiccount OP t1_iujvux2 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:52 PM

based on what ive read most people in my age range cant afford a house in the current market thats why i said im lucky. and yes this has been a issue ive brought up with her before and she says she working on it i just dont see much progress but im trying my best to be supportive.

juliaskig t1_iuk4fxn wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:59 PM

Sorry, but you have a baby woman. That's why her parents sat you down, and decided they and you, should determine your wife's fate.

She has broken off from them, and there are four people in your relationship.

Neonpinx t1_iuk04kq wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:25 PM

Tell her the truth about her parents. You would be foolish to get married and have kids with someone this attached and controlled by parents who see her as a baby incubator who doesn’t have the right to her body autonomy.