Submitted by winterr1299 t3_yiogid in relationship_advice
After 4 years of toxicity including verbal, emotion and physical abuse I decided to make mistakes. We just moved to a new state last year and our fights were getting worst. Physically fights were arising.
I messed with my ex and few months later, i messed with my friend. I didn’t tell him until a year later which was now last November. The only reason I told him that very day is because I found him flirting and engaging with his family friend whom he had been saying for a while was his “cousin”. The girl never engaged back sexually, only laughed or dry answered him bc she knew we were together.
We came down to having 2 threesomes and he would start off the sessions for a few minutes. Our arguments have only gotten worst since we both found out the news. The other day we argued and he’s been saying for almost 2 weeks he doesn’t want the 3some anymore, he wants to mess with 2 girls alone now and if not, we can break up. If we change, I would love to stay together.
I need some guidance - just my daughter and I in this new state.
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