My (24f) girlfriend (24f) has the urge to bite me, which she cant seem to control. We have been together almost 2 years but this just started maybe two months ago. I kind of like it, except when it’s so hard that it hurts. Was wondering why she does it, as well as maybe how to control it!

Thanks!

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Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_iujvtu9 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:51 PM

This is not the sub to ask about kinks bud.

Wabba-day OP t1_iujwvs4 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:59 PM

Sorry! Could you maybe point me to the right one?

Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_iujwy1j wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:00 PM

Nope. I avoid those places for a reason. Good luck though.

Upbeat_Vermicelli983 t1_iujxf9w wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:03 PM

Have you talk to her about any fetish she might have? Does she get turned on by it???

Also just explain to her that what turn on a person during sexy time can change actual should over time.

Just tell it not fun that part.

If she keep doing it I would tell her it hurts then grab a squirt gun hit few times with water and tell her to cool it!

Hope you gals have many year of enjoyable sex!!

curly_lox t1_iuk02vw wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:24 PM

If you've asked her to stop and she continues afterward, she doesn't respect your boundaries.

NoMonth980 t1_iuk1ui0 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:38 PM

Hmmm tell her stop it hurts

Idk why young people need help expressing themselves to their SOs