Hey, first of all. I am really sorry for you. You obviously want to be in your child's life which is a great thing. If you seriously consider killing yourself, please call the suicide hotline or talk to someone (your wife?) about this. If you want to move states to get away from the drama that is fine as well. I know this situation sucks and sadly, going to court will not change anything. However, I would encourage you to stay in your child's life. If his mother does not educate him, maybe you can teach him how to not be racist and stuff like that.

Also, he is a kid right now, so he might grow up to actually appreciate the two nights he got to spend at yours every week, since you seem like you sincerely care about him.