oiler1996 t1_iujq5bn wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:10 PM

Did she send them to anyone well you were together? was she indirectly wanting to receive dick pics back and was she receiving them whem together? if it was before you dated then dont stress it. Maybe you can drop it casually or as a joke about it so it doesnt come out as ackwardly

Aitathrowaway9085 OP t1_iujqumj wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:15 PM

One of them is dated a couple of months after we got together, the rest all before.

oiler1996 t1_iujrbwj wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:19 PM

Did she send it to someone during that time or was it just for her? The ones before i wouldnt worry about that was before your relationship and isnt that big of a deal in my opinion, but the one during is odd. If anything yea talk to her say you seen them when transfering over the files and want to discuss it if she is willing, then go from their

Aitathrowaway9085 OP t1_iujs12b wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:24 PM

Was in the WhatsApp folder, so yeah. Could have been an old photo someone sent to her though.

oiler1996 t1_iujs9mm wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:25 PM

Honestly the only way to find out is to talk to her, if not then your gonna always have thoughts about this and may eventually think she is cheating, i think its better to nip this now before it grows into something much larger

OnlyFactsMatter t1_iuk8xe6 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:35 PM

> The ones before i wouldnt worry about that was before your relationship and isnt that big of a deal in my opinion,

I disagree. It's not her fault obviously, but mentally I'd never get over it.

Plus, it shows her doing kinky stuff that she wouldn't do for him. So mentally, it's just a dealbreaker.

oiler1996 t1_iuk92wa wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:36 PM

We dont know if she refuses to do the same kinky shit with him. But i do understand how this could be a dealbreaker for some people

OnlyFactsMatter t1_iukamb2 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:48 PM

> We dont know if she refuses to do the same kinky shit with him.

He confirmed it above. To me, that's an undeniable dealbreaker. Honestly I'd consider it as bad as cheating.

oiler1996 t1_iukawp8 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:50 PM

Alright yea i could see that being a dealbreaker for some people, to me it shows she either doesnt trust OP with kinky shit, doesnt think she will enjoy it with him, or she has outgrown that phase of her life, but for her to have the photos still 2 years later i would agree it is a dealbreaker for me aswell.