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oiler1996 t1_iujrbwj wrote

Reply to comment by Aitathrowaway9085 in Looked at my partner's old pictures, should I confess? by Aitathrowaway9085

Did she send it to someone during that time or was it just for her? The ones before i wouldnt worry about that was before your relationship and isnt that big of a deal in my opinion, but the one during is odd. If anything yea talk to her say you seen them when transfering over the files and want to discuss it if she is willing, then go from their

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Aitathrowaway9085 OP t1_iujs12b wrote

Was in the WhatsApp folder, so yeah. Could have been an old photo someone sent to her though.

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oiler1996 t1_iujs9mm wrote

Honestly the only way to find out is to talk to her, if not then your gonna always have thoughts about this and may eventually think she is cheating, i think its better to nip this now before it grows into something much larger

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OnlyFactsMatter t1_iuk8xe6 wrote

> The ones before i wouldnt worry about that was before your relationship and isnt that big of a deal in my opinion,

I disagree. It's not her fault obviously, but mentally I'd never get over it.

Plus, it shows her doing kinky stuff that she wouldn't do for him. So mentally, it's just a dealbreaker.

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oiler1996 t1_iuk92wa wrote

We dont know if she refuses to do the same kinky shit with him. But i do understand how this could be a dealbreaker for some people

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OnlyFactsMatter t1_iukamb2 wrote

> We dont know if she refuses to do the same kinky shit with him.

He confirmed it above. To me, that's an undeniable dealbreaker. Honestly I'd consider it as bad as cheating.

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oiler1996 t1_iukawp8 wrote

Alright yea i could see that being a dealbreaker for some people, to me it shows she either doesnt trust OP with kinky shit, doesnt think she will enjoy it with him, or she has outgrown that phase of her life, but for her to have the photos still 2 years later i would agree it is a dealbreaker for me aswell.

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