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InspectionAntique764 OP t1_iuk1rsf wrote

Reply to comment by ExpressingThoughts in My Bf thinks it’s okay not to tell me his plan’s because “we don’t live together” by InspectionAntique764

I tell him all the time just out of curtsy if I’m going out or what my plans for the next day are. We’ve never had any problems like this before and we’ve been together over a year.

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ExpressingThoughts t1_iuk261u wrote

Wow for over a year? He sounds like he has avoidant issues or is hiding another life. Have you talked to him about moving in together and the future?

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InspectionAntique764 OP t1_iuk2xli wrote

He definitely avoids serious/important conversations. This is the way it’s making me feel like somethings not right. Yeah we are currently saving for a house and have been actively viewing properties

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ExpressingThoughts t1_iuk6yvw wrote

I mean you're looking for clues when something isn't right when his actions are showing outright he's abusive.

It is emotional abuse to threaten to fall off the face of the earth in order to end a discussion. Is this how all conflicts will go- if he wants to end the discussion, he threatens to disappear on you?

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