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Throupled t1_iuhuoyu wrote

Absolutely a red flag, absolutely a deal breaker.

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Unusual-Stranger-780 t1_iuhuyfs wrote

She’s going to cheat or break up with you for him bro. Just leave her alone

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michuru809 t1_iuhwlh1 wrote

I would wish her the absolute best, but that this isn't the relationship dynamic you're seeking.

  • She's not only still talking to her ex- she's comparing you to him (he just "knows her better")
  • He's the only person in her hometown that can give her updates- like really? It's either a small town and she wants updates on the cows, or who does she want updates on that she can't pick up the phone and call directly- or connect with on Facebook? If she really wanted to talk to old friends she'd talk to the old friends.
  • You guys started dating pretty quickly after she broke up with this guy- people need a bit of time for this type of back and forth before they get into new relationships and it doesn't sound like that happened.
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Just_aShyGirl t1_iuhwmvr wrote

Yep 3 months is too soon to try to be friends with an ex. Her feelings for him are too fresh. Also, why you decided to put yourself in this situation? You are obviously the rebound guy.

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PopFull8936 t1_iui5b04 wrote

I kinda just looked past the rebound thing. She also said that she hasnt loved him for 3 months and only stayed with him because she felt bad

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Just_aShyGirl t1_iui7uhy wrote

Her not loving him doesn't mean that she was over with him. She didn't give herself time to heal herself. And got into a relationship with you too soon when she was obviously not ready. It was really selfish of her to accept a relationship with you when she is still stuck on an ex. I'm guessing you don't really have much relationship experience. So take this as a lesson and don't do this to yourself again. End the relationship. Not just for you but for her too. She needs time to figure out her problems or she might just find another rebound guy.

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Notverycreative88 t1_iuhvk1q wrote

Would be a deal breaker for me..

Especially the whole "Ahh, he is a newsreporter, I need to know what is going on at home" - so.. The only one who can tell you about what's happening at home is your ex? :P nonsense.

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Pelinal_Lex t1_iuiaa5y wrote

It's been three months after her break up with him, she's going back. It's pretty apparent you were just a rebound here to make her ex jealous

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Specialist_Two_138 t1_iuj4usv wrote

3 months relationship is not long

Considering the past with ex, it is necessary to leave

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