inna_hey t1_iuitwav wrote
Reply to comment by lonelyonaspecialday in I (33F) flew very far to visit my best friend (29F) and I feel uncomfortable around her boyfriend (31M) by lonelyonaspecialday
What is there to be confused about? You have a weakened immune system and are susceptible to illness. It's not rocket science, it's very unlikely that she didn't understand that.
You seem to be bending over backwards to avoid accepting the obvious conclusion that she prioritizes her own feelings over yours
lonelyonaspecialday OP t1_iuixulw wrote
You’re right, it is very hard for me to accept because she has done so many things for me, especially pretty recently. So I just have a hard time believing that she just doesn’t care, cause she’s shown me in different ways that she does. She was there for me when my grandma died 3 months ago, even flew out to surprise me and break me out of a depression. She’s given me a place to stay when I was nearly out of a home… I mean I could list off lots of things. She has stated that she does have a hard time understanding what it’s like for me to have my illness…
inna_hey t1_iuj7rl2 wrote
People are complicated. They can be caring in one instance and weirdly indifferent or hostile in another.
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