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Any_Dress_3811 t1_iuk0vq6 wrote

Have you even met him in person yet? I can't think of a single scenario where there isn't a huge red flag reason why this is happening, and it mostly comes down to he's either married or living with his girlfriend.

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Zebraturtle007 OP t1_iuk1wx5 wrote

Haven't met, I cancelled our first date when he stood me up that night. I've asked him twice if he has a girlfriend while mentioning his strange behaviour and he told me he doesn't. I kinda believed him because he seems super inexperienced with women? But I can't know for sure and I don't have another explanation

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Any_Dress_3811 t1_iuk2rbo wrote

Even if it's because he's inexperienced with women, it still makes no sense. He doesn't touch his phone after work? Days off, either? You don't work with him, so about 100% of your relationship would be during his non-working time, but you don't get to spend a minute of that talking to him? You shouldn't commit any more time to him if he can't commit any of his personal time to you.

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