I’m a 26m but I’m just wondering I’ve talked to many girls and it seems like none want to have a serious relationship I don’t just want FWB but it seems like girls my age just want fuckbuddies not a future. Maybe it’s just me but I want something meaningful.

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tofu_milk t1_iuk1itr wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:36 PM

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What's your circle like? I have a mix of people who do want to settle down and those who just want to have fun, but I'm 23 and most people I connect well with are people who are more so home-bodies like me.

[deleted] OP t1_iuk1m8a wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:36 PM

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I don’t really have a circle per say, I get alone with anyone and everyone, but I’m just saying in general date wise.

tofu_milk t1_iuk3idm wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:51 PM

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I guess generally with people our age, a loud majority of people aren't ready to settle for meaningful relationships anymore. I'm no expert on this topic by any means, but I just feel like the quality of life improvement along with how much more progressive society is nowadays lead people our age to think that committed relationships aren't necessary.

NicTri20 t1_iuk6sl9 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:18 PM

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I promise it gets better as you get older. Yes people have meaningful relationships, but your 20's are complicated. At least the were for me. So many options and people not ready to settle down.