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bigshoots21 t1_iuk063q wrote

Reply to comment by Help24-7 in Is my wife cheating on me? by [deleted]

The issues relate back to the financial. I don’t spend much on myself, if any. The money I have either goes to my daughter or my wife. Since not making as much as I was, it seemed to kind of make her resent me. I put a budget together to ensure we have enough to put food on the table. The money issues is the biggest in our relationship for sure. We are in individual counseling and when I bring up marriage counseling it somehow turns into an argument.

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Help24-7 t1_iuk17qy wrote

Okay... But the comment your wife made makes it clear that it's more than just money issues. And did you include your wife on making a budget??

Why does she not want couples counseling??

There's a lot of missing info here. I asked some very specific questions that you ignored and/or gave a basic answer too.

Have you asked her to write out what she feels needs to be worked on in your marriage??

Also your daughter is not biologically her child correct?? You've written multiple times that the daughter is only related to you and not your wife. Has that created some issues as well?

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