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bigshoots21 t1_iuk15m5 wrote

Reply to comment by Help24-7 in Is my wife cheating on me? by [deleted]

To add: I don’t blow her phone up at all, I typically will message her around lunch wishing her a good day and see how things are going. I completely understand when she’s working the minimal communication. The problem is when we are together she will tell me she doesnt reply because she’s never around her phone or she’s busy doing whatever, but when we together she’s on it constantly. That’s where my issue lies.

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Help24-7 t1_iuk2kri wrote

Okay why is it an issue she's on her phone when you're around?? She's not working and not busy doing other things. She's using the phone to occupy her time in that moment. Is she not allowed to use her phone around you?? Also is she using the phone as a buffer for the lack of sex? Is she spacing out while you finally spend time with your daughter ?? Is she using the phone to avoid fighting with you??

Is the living situation making your issues worse?? Again Why are you living separately?? Why wouldn't you make the effort to stay together in one spot? Especially if things aren't going well....wouldn't it behoove you to make that extra effort for your family?

Again there seems to be a communication issue.... And that's just from me writing to you on here. You don't answer specifics or avoid things that I'm guessing either make you uncomfortable or put you in a less favorable light.

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