Okay why is it an issue she's on her phone when you're around?? She's not working and not busy doing other things. She's using the phone to occupy her time in that moment. Is she not allowed to use her phone around you?? Also is she using the phone as a buffer for the lack of sex? Is she spacing out while you finally spend time with your daughter ?? Is she using the phone to avoid fighting with you??

Is the living situation making your issues worse?? Again Why are you living separately?? Why wouldn't you make the effort to stay together in one spot? Especially if things aren't going well....wouldn't it behoove you to make that extra effort for your family?

Again there seems to be a communication issue.... And that's just from me writing to you on here. You don't answer specifics or avoid things that I'm guessing either make you uncomfortable or put you in a less favorable light.