my boyfriend deactivated the only account we talk on

Submitted by reddituserr579 t3_yiprgs in relationship_advice

A little background context I was talking to this guy a few years back. me and him were dating and this girl ended up coming in and home wrecking the relationship and me and him broke up, a little while later they started dating. years later now they’re still together and she is very physically and emotionally abusive towards him, me and him are still in contact and love each other very much but he moved out of state so it’s hard for us to stay in contact considering she lives in the house with him. He will block me on and off when she is home so that she does not see and I’m aware of this and it’s not a problem for me, but today he deactivated his account and I’m not sure how to feel about this I don’t know what I’m going to do and I’m kind of feeling lost. any opinions!?

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yowen2000 t1_iujut9o wrote

He chose her over you. It's time to take this deactivation as your queue to move on. He may pop into your life sometime in the future, but don't entertain him if he is still in a relationship, he may be in a bad relationship, but you're helping him cheat.

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PixieOnAcid t1_iujuq78 wrote

You kinda sound like the homewrecker, not her.

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Logical-Wasabi7402 t1_iujx7ts wrote

Be glad he's stopped treating you like the side chick.

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curly_lox t1_iuk0vvb wrote

Nobody wrecked your home. Your boyfriend cheated on you.

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softshoulder313 t1_iuk9lal wrote

Sounds like he can't help but cheat. He cheated on you with the girl he's with now and he's cheating on her with you.

If for some reason you get back together with him he will cheat. Stop letting him waist your time.

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maryjanewatsoniii t1_iujv78c wrote

Men are very easy to understand in this way.

I promise you this: If a man is interested, you’ll know. If a man wants to talk to you, he’ll make it very easy.

I’m sorry. You deserve much much better!

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