Submitted by Legitimate_Shirt513 t3_yiqzck in relationship_advice
My wife doesn’t feel loved, which really sucks because despite what she may think, I actually love her more than air. Full on, unconditional, no matter what I love her, she’s my favorite person. I ask her what I do or say or don’t do that makes her feel unloved, ways I could show love differently than I do that she would feel, etc but I get back that it’s “not her job to teach me how to love her. She’s not my mother, I should know how to love someone, I don’t love her. If I did I wouldn’t have to ask”
Y’all 100% honestly she could say it makes me feel loved when you build a rocket ship and find a way to land us on mars and I’d spend every moment of free I have for the rest of forever studying rocket propulsion and lunar habitats.
Help me out
NeverPostAnything69 t1_iuk271a wrote
Dude, you're not a mindreader, and you shouldn't have to be. If you want to stay in this relationship, she needs to start communicating better. This isn't on you.