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cold_cash_devine OP t1_iug8d9i wrote

Reply to comment by HonDadCBR600 in I (f21) really have been trying hard to want to make a relationship work with my partner (m25) I’m not sure if it’s me or him at this point. by cold_cash_devine

I don’t even love him anymore. I don’t even know why I’m with him. After I scolded him for the ex thing he hasn’t even been saying goodnight and Goodmorning and texting me the same or calling. His mother said I was jealous and should apologize. But obviously 🙄 I’m not. I just don’t feel anything for him anymore.

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HonDadCBR600 t1_iuggz92 wrote

Mommy is always gonna take her little boy’s side over yours. Plain and simple. Apologizing (if YOU’VE done nothing wrong)only serves to justify his actions and to make you feel like you’re the reason he acts this way. Then the “If only I could ..insert action here…then he would change” thoughts start to come and it’s downhill from there. Life is short and, while you may be young now, you shouldn’t waste anymore of it in this toxic and harmful situation. Just my opinion, of course, but, from having experienced this type of relationship before, unless he decides to change and get help for his issues it’s unlikely things will change for the better. They can always get worse though.

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