Submitted by cold_cash_devine t3_yhvz5v in relationship_advice
I was introduced to my partner by a friend. He used to always bring me flowers and was the sweetest. Which I expect for a honeymoon phase. He started being rude and telling me to sell my dream project car it was never going to run i was a failure and I loved my Porsche I proved him wrong and he still hates on my car all the time.
He constantly shuts down my hopes and dreams and tells me they will not happen or can’t happen and expects me to be there for him and his dreams.
I make a lot less money than he does he wants to save for a house it’s nearly impossible for my budget right now I told him hold off it’s not in my budget but he’s so blind and insistent on me fitting something into my budget that just won’t.
He hasn’t taken me out on an actual date since we’ve first met. And our date nights consist of McDonald’s. Other cheaper food options or eating at home.
He’s crossed sexual boundaries and hurt me so many times I’ve lost count. I finally got upset and told his mother.
He on the regular insults me and calls me crude names and says it’s because he loves me and I shouldn’t be offended. I should take it as a compliment or a joke.
And last week he told me in the car he wanted to see his ex and hug her after they’ve been broken up for years. I finally got on him spoke my mind and told him if he did we’re done. But I was the bad guy for this.
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