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Cute_peach69 t1_iuj3uwu wrote

We’re in a very similar situation however, its the other way around. I’m introverted —- I love planning, being mentally ready, staying in cause it makes me happy and SO is an extrovert.

We talk and fight a lot about going out before but we learnt how to compromise and there’s no way it’d be fine to either of us thinking it’d be “best” to go out with “another” gender to go to places rather than convincing ur partner to go with u. That’s so disrespectful. Also, for sure your girlfriends wont say the same thing as what you’re thinking not unless the places you fancy going is intended for couple…

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lifeissoupiamf0rk OP t1_iuj4ehi wrote

How did you compromise?

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Cute_peach69 t1_iuj4wjo wrote

I agreed going out with him 2-3x a week for party, food in a restaurant and meeting new people.

Most weekends — we just stay in, order food, go for a swim near his home or gym, and sleep.

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