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I would consider myself broken up at this point, but I might send a text telling him that before you mess around with the FWB, just to keep your own hands clean.

If you’re on a break and not talking it’s not cheating

Fair enough

When it comes to breaks, typically y’all decide on how you approach them. Are you allowed to see other people? How long?

In this case since you have been ghosted for over a week, i think he dumped you.

You’re a free woman

I would have loved to have talked about the terms of the break with him, but he didn’t respond to any of my texts right after he sent his last message.

Yep…. He wanted a “break” so he did it by text, instead of in person.

He dumped you and was too cowardly to do it properly

It he is ghosting you, go have fun for halloween, its is loss not yours.

I’m sick of cowardly men 🙄

My first boyfriend dumped me by texting too. I get you

If you want to sleep with other people like this, even though he is on break, I think you are just not interested enough in this relationship. It's okay to just call it quits from here.

I am interested in it! He was the nicest man I’ve ever met, and I was so excited for a potential future with him. It really hurt when he didn’t respond at all, and it just didn’t seem like something he would do. I was really invested in him, but he kinda broke my trust with this

ETA, Halloween is also my favorite holiday, and I just don’t want to spend it alone

Why don't you leave him a message and say that Halloween is your favorite holiday and that you don't want to be alone. Maybe both of you can hang out on that day. Casual.

Or maybe you decide to not be alone but not sleep with someone else.

How would you suggest I word that message?

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No? Is she a dog? She texted him many times. She should stop now. Don’t give her stupid advice’s

He hasn’t contacted you for a week? I’d consider it over. I wouldn’t get back together with someone that didn’t contact me for a week.

No

Don't, just don't. Your first week and he wants a break? Just nip this in the bud and end this trainwreck before it even starts.

It isn't not cheating, they haven't talked about it and what the rules are. So what it is is heartbreak on all ends.