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Paranoia_Pizza t1_iuhbjhm wrote

It sounds like he has feelings for you and he's trying to create a healthy boundary between both of you to respect your relationship.

I would just let him tbh. I would respect him and let him make the first move in future

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dynamiteflower t1_iuhbs9p wrote

thank you for your advice! i’ll just wait it out and see if he eventually reaches out or not. thank you!

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Panasonic711 t1_iuhdznn wrote

Why send a pic with a sports bra etc??? I am here thinking why? I can’t think of another reason other than flexing. Real casual???? People don’t do that at all.

He probably thought it was a grey area. Maybe doesn’t like things blurred.

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dynamiteflower t1_iuhe9oa wrote

he plays a lot of tennis and he’s more on the fit side unlike me. it’s more of a hey i’m at the gym and i’m actually committing to something since i’ve gained a lot of weight in the last year. he’s encouraged me to go to the gym and to turn over a new leaf and i have so i wanted to show him :c i only included sports bra incase it was something that might’ve been worth mentioning but i doubt it.

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Paranoia_Pizza t1_iujj1jz wrote

I don't think it's particularly weird to send pics to friends in a sports bra.

If they know me they've probably seen me in a bikini or a sports bra on at least twice so I wouldn't think much of it.

However it's likely been the catalyst that's made him think he shouldn't be friendly with you anymore

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