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If you really don't want to wear the shirt, being honest with him is the way to go. Thank him for the gift and let him know how much you appreciate his thoughtfulness. Then tell him the shirt isn't your style and you'd like to exchange it for something you would be able to wear more often. He can choose to be hurt or he can be a grown-up about it. It's just a shirt.

It happens sometimes; thank him for the thought & then let it pass?

Instead of lying for days and pretending you liked it you should've told him up front and said that you like the sentiment but it's not your style and ask if he would be willing to go with you so you could exchange it.

A lie kept up over days is much worse than telling someone when you get a gift that you would prefer something else.

So your fiancé obviously had good intentions but if you don't like a style that is ok. That is why buying clothes for others is tough. Until people try it on anyways you don't know if you will like it regardless.

I would just talk to him and tell him you really do appreciate that he got you a gift but reiterate it just wasn't your style. Also in the future telling your honest opinion about something is better. In addition, giving short responses can be seen that you are upset at him.

Always try to say something good about the attempt before you explain why you don't like it. It was a gift and you are engaged so these communication issues are extremely important.

It’s ok that you didn’t like it. It’s ok that he’s hurt.

Talk it out. This is honestly no big deal. Some gifts hit, others don’t.