Submitted by CardiologistDecent76 t3_yioq04 in relationship_advice
Recently married for 3 months ago I just opened my husband phone and found hidden pictures of his ex girlfriend(> 500 pic), some of it involve video of passionate kisses and sexy bikini . I felt upset & i told him that , he said he has forgotten about it and agree to delete it . What bothers me most is that some of the pictures was 5 months ago , he told me they has separated 2 years ago. But unfortunately it wasnt the case. Strange enough i feel that i was wrong checking his phone and request him to delete some of pic from the past . I feel insecure. In trying to reassure me he told me that his ex tried to contact him 2 weeks ago from another number but he blocked her ( which made me feels even worse) I don’t know what to think or what is the wise action to do in this case
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