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Own-Understanding428 t1_iuj0bbm wrote

Have you actually showed you guys are serious outside of just you too. Do you understand German culture, Food, activities. Your intention is to marry their son. Come during Christmas with energy, and leader mentality. Show them your not a basic American girl flopping around.<- this is what foreigners think.

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Assortedark74 OP t1_iuj1s44 wrote

This was actually going to be me meeting his parents and brother, I was planning on bringing gifts for them all as an introduction hoping they would see around my being American (I honestly wish I wasn’t an American), but ugh it kinda disappoints me that they would push him to that level, parents are supposed to be supportive.. at least I think they are right?

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Own-Understanding428 t1_iuj3do1 wrote

Well come ready like how I said in my opinion in my above comment. You will do great. Nothing wrong with being American, but you have to realize the media that they take in verse what you do is two different things. Like how Korean girls think American white guys are bold,tall and wild lol.

Yes parents are suppose to be supportive. They are his parents and want the best for ->him<-. Show them your ready to be a wife. Help with dishes, take his plate , ask questions.

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