>And a part of me does like what we have going on at the moment because it’s easy

A lazy lover would get old so fast.

Fulfillment rarely comes from taking the easy path. You may want to take some initiative before he starts realizing what he might be missing out on. You may be his first, and he might not feel like he's missing anything right now, but you better hope he doesn't have friends or the internet because he's going to find out some day that there are women that are really enthusiastic about receiving AND giving.