larlyssa t1_iuik31k wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:28 PM

Reply to comment by omaolligain in How do I RSVP to a wedding when half the couple has suddenly pulled back? by [deleted]

Thank you for your comment. I promise I’m not trying to make it about myself - she’s just the type of person who normally texts back in 2 minutes, so it’s quite out of character. And the one time I’ve seen her frustrated with me, she similarly went radio silent.

WeeklyConversation8 t1_iuir11f wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:14 PM

Planning a wedding is stressful. She doesn't have time to text everyone back every day. She has to deal with the venue, vendors, finding her wedding dress, etc. Even the most chill people can get overwhelmed by all the decisions that need to be made when planning a wedding.

omaolligain t1_iuili2j wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:38 PM

It doesn't mean she's frustrated or stressed with you. There are other things in her life that could stress her out too. If you're worried about her invite her for coffee or dessert alone sometime. And don't get offended when she can't (again, she could just be stressed out and tired with no relation to you at all).