Submitted by athena2367 t3_yirsf8 in relationship_advice
My girl friends (25-26 F) of 3+ years and my boyfriend (23 M) of 6 months met for the first time at a party and got into a huge fight and my friend(s) are basically making me choose. What would you guys do in this situation?? I have the entire, long description of what actually happened and the details if you guys want specifics—just send me a message and I’ll send it to you.
Edit: Specifics in the comments if you want to read my novel of a post (that was too long to post together).
oiler1996 t1_iuk8go0 wrote
So from what i got from this is your so called friends spent the entire time trying to get him to argue and angry and they kept pushing him. The more he drank the more they were trying to get him going and it worked. They managed to get him angry and yelling at them and you, they dont seem like good friends at all, no matter who you date they will probably pull the same shit every time because they are miserable and you were somewhat happy before they got involved. As per your other comment, your boyfriend apologized this morning and didnt make you choose sides and said he would understand if you left him, your friends on the other hand started gossiping to another friend to get you to leave him and choose them instead, this comes across as some highschool jealous bullshit on the friends side. If you want to stay with bf try talking to him about setting boundaries when drinking with friends