MsBuzzkillington83 t1_iujqw2c wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:15 PM

Reply to comment by sxfrklarret in My wife (F 30) started talking with a therapist and wasn't ready to tell me (M 29). She lied about what she was doing and I dug in. Now she's mad that I didn't trust her but I'm mad she lied to me. by [deleted]

Well I see u didn't read the comments I made after, I said she's hiding something, I was thinking seeing the therapist about her leaving him

Unless he was accusing her, he did nothing wrong

As far as I gathered, he asked her twice, both of the times she acted suspicious.

OP explained her personality and after that u suspect she just thinks therapy is a weakness or embarrassment

sxfrklarret t1_iujs8qb wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:25 PM

If he is this mistrusting in his wife he needs to leave her. But not because of her but him. He is one the reddit man babies who makes it all about him and his insecurities. Being defensive is NOT suspicious it is being defensive for a reason. He has a poor relationship due to his insecurities so he needs to pack and go if he does not trust her.