Capricondor t1_iuk3scr wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:54 PM

Reply to comment by Jay7488 in My wife (F 30) started talking with a therapist and wasn't ready to tell me (M 29). She lied about what she was doing and I dug in. Now she's mad that I didn't trust her but I'm mad she lied to me. by [deleted]

No I have not. But again I trust her and I have no reason to believe that she would lie to me about that. My biggest issue is I couldn't come up with any reason that she would be hiding who she was talking to from me.

Jay7488 t1_iuk4sjz wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:02 PM

But you didn't believe that she'd lie to you in the first place. How do you know that you can trust her?

Capricondor t1_iuk7k5h wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:24 PM

Because I trust her. She would only lie to me with good reason and I have been given no reason to believe that she would lie about that. Also I was aware in advance of her current job having a high % of mental health issues and therapists being provided through work so it is a very believable scenario. No reason to not trust her. Just didn't understand or appreciate her lying to me.