ChadiozCan t1_iuirjef wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:18 PM

🤯 the best and most overwhelming form of chemistry taking place!! Enjoy the ride & When things turn sour, try to remember this phase…

smartUtuber317 t1_iuirwjo wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:20 PM

Yes thank you 🥹 I will try to hold on.

Antikristoff t1_iuisnmw wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:25 PM

The hormonal rush you experience at the start of a relationship is a precious thing. If you're a young guy/gal prepare to fuck up a lot along the way afterwards (but every fuck up is useful to become a better adult).

My best advice going forward is to never forget the feeling of having a good friend besides you and don't be scared to show the real you.

smartUtuber317 t1_iuiss6l wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:26 PM

Thank you. This means a lot. ❤️

SomeScoobyDooShit t1_iuir9i1 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:16 PM

Go have a wank and calm down, you found mutual interest, that's a good thing.

smartUtuber317 t1_iuirhva wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:17 PM

Bro wanking makes me even nervous around her. I obsess even more. I need to get her out of my mind for a bit so I can study for my Uni finals 😭 Like I really really love her but it's become an obsession.

triaxisman t1_iuirlov wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:18 PM

It’s one of the first stages of a relationship, infatuation. It’s normal, it’s what encourages you to get to know someone more. In general, as you spend more time together it’ll wear off and it’ll be either replaced by indifference or annoyance and you’ll break up, or by love and emotional connection and you’ll stay together.

smartUtuber317 t1_iuis180 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:21 PM

I dont want to break up 💀 I want to love but in a healthy manner. You think this will get to normal? Or am I doomed?

triaxisman t1_iuitp0f wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:32 PM

Reading your other comments, it sounds like the rush of it all is driving you to distraction. So yes it calms back down to normal, but it can take a bit before it does, hormones can be a bitch. So cold showers, exercise til exhaustion, and spanking the monkey can help. But what you’re feeling is to be expected, and with time it’ll go from this to compatibility and love or you’ll realize you’re not compatible and move on.

smartUtuber317 t1_iuityux wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:34 PM

Ok bro. I'll be calm. I got this. I hope this works out.

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