I don't have savings because he keeps losing all our money. All of our stuff was together until about a month ago when he admitted to smoking crack after he lost 2000 dollars out of nowhere. I do have a job and I'm trying to save up to move out. He hid my car title so idk what I'll do about that...I like that you said "no name calling or a big production" I'm so mad at him all the time it's hard for me to not tell him how unempathetic he is as he stares at me crying that he doesn't love me....7 years and this is how it's ends...it's really hard to not let him know how badly he ruined my life