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triaxisman t1_iujlus4 wrote

Sounds like you’ve internalized negative judgements of the male body that you’ve heard from some people you know. You need to talk to more people and also maybe a therapist. There are lots of women (and men) that find male bodies attractive as fuck.

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ThrowRAImTooOld t1_iujm8pf wrote

This reads much more like "grass is greener" rather than "I've always felt like a woman". The grass is never greener. Take time and reflect on what you wrote. Does society stereotype men and women in certain ways? Are those stereotypes real? Or are they cheap imitations of reality?

I think you should take some time to reflect on what gives you worth, what your values are, and build back your sense of worth and esteem. There is probably a lot there, right now though you're internalizing a lot of external messaging, and that's not "you" nor likely "real".

Sit with yourself friend.

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Imaginary_Tax_3046 t1_iujmrr6 wrote

Wtf did I just read. Bro women bleed out their fuckin vag, and you want to say men are gross? Women definitely appreciate a nice male physique. Even if the don’t like to admit it 😌🤷‍♂️

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BelmontIncident t1_iujnkkh wrote

You're vastly overestimating the number and forwardness of lesbian and bisexual women. You'd mostly have men going after you. Is that a positive outcome for you?

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Disdain690 t1_iujnteo wrote

WTF did I just read? You want to become a woman because of your incorrect generalized view of how women view men? Most heterosexual women find men attractive, they just might not find you attractive.

I support people transitioning and all of that, but this seems to stem from self hate.

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JMRDALLAS t1_iujnzfp wrote

Your opinions on female/male sex appeal are flawed, and that alone should be enough for you to reevaluate your opinions and experiences. Flawed how? Well your opinions regarding appeal of the 2 sexes are in fact superficial, metaphorical, and physically. To much to explain so I'll keep it short, if you have a micro penis it'll probably go through one ear out the other.

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CuteDerpster t1_iujobwk wrote

As a trans woman.... Nope, majority of cis lesbians will not be interested in you.

I can sing a song hour that, everyone is attracted to me till I tell them. Which is fine, but just proves your idea is stupid lol

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