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GHERU42 t1_iujvf89 wrote

“I wanted to text him but decided not to , if he wanted to see me again he’d text me”

Don’t play stupid games like this. If you want to talk to him text him. You’re 35!

You left the date early, you need to be the one to reach out. You left early and now you’re ghosting him.

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dupattaluella t1_iujsf0n wrote

>I wanted to text him but decided not to , if he wanted to see me again he’d text me . I don’t understand what happened and what went wrong , if it did .

Use this same logic on yourself. If you wanted to see him again you'd text him. He may not understand what happened and what went wrong, if it did.

You even said yourself you were supposed to stay over then didn't due to an appointment. He may have thought you changed your mind over something he did.

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girlnextdoor7788888 t1_iujv4jf wrote

Could be . But if he was interested and cared he’d reach out or would text me no matter what .

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dupattaluella t1_iujvpic wrote

And if you were interested and cared, you'd reach out or text him no matter what.

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BraveCorporateLogo t1_iujwz1z wrote

Imagine being 35 and playing games like this. They agreed on casual, and that’s what they got. OP needs to stop modelling her life after rom-coms. And now in the last 40 minutes she’s made three separate posts about this

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GHERU42 t1_iujxgrw wrote

Too many Hallmark movies ruins some women the same way too much porn can ruin some men: Exaggerated expectations and an over inflated sense of self worth.

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dupattaluella t1_iujyr6e wrote

YES!! 1000 times yes! My husband says the same thing except he uses rom coms and Disney fairytales for his examples.

It's also really funny to see women saying they want to be equal to men, yet won't put in equal effort when it comes to relationships.

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dupattaluella t1_iujyt06 wrote

She's 35 and single. She's probably been playing games her entire dating life.

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GHERU42 t1_iujx70m wrote

Not after you left a date because of an appointment you “just remembered” and then never reached out.

He’s respecting your “no.”

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oversizedsweetpotato t1_iujsg22 wrote

People from dating apps can be flaky, if he’s looking for something casual and is open about it - he’s possibly seeing multiple people?

At the same time maybe he was expecting you to text first this time. It’s quite difficult to assess just from what has happened thus far.

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