Submitted by Baabaaboo t3_yim68o in relationship_advice
I'll start by saying what a great guy he is. We've been together 13+ years, he is an amazing dad to our toddler, he is supportive, caring and I don't doubt that he loves me...
But we live like roommates. We even sleep in seperate beds because of his sleep apnea. He has zero sex drive. He refuses my advanced. He doesn't make any himself. The sex was only ever okay. Now it is non existent. We have had sex ONCE in the last YEAR.
We've talked about it in the past. He says the same thing was true in his past relationships. He tries a little harder for a while, but it always fizzles out.
In our past "dry spells" , I admit to have becoming flirtatious with other men. I do get a fair bit of interest. Never really meaning to take it further but enjoying the attention and feeling desirable... I have led other men on...I'm not proud of that fact.
But this past year... It's been tough. I don't feel like he wants to address the problem. I don't know what to do. I can't live a celibate life. I have sexual desires and needs that need to be fulfilled. I've already caught myself becoming overly flirtatious...
Someone tell me what to do, because I have no god damned idea
Domguyps5 t1_iuje86w wrote
If cheating is your go to thing then he is way better off without you