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Guilty_Hunter9304 t1_iuk5n9r wrote

Nope.

I don't care who she was with/ what she did before me. That predates me, so it's not relevant to my relationship

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FriendlyDrama766 t1_iuk6n9a wrote

This is presuming you have no suspicions your partner is cheating on you. I have never been this person but I found out with my ex by snooping a little because he was always SUPER obsessive over me not touching his phone.

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Traditional_Fortune6 t1_iuk5joe wrote

I can barely manage my own social media, much less snoop on my partner's. I wouldn't. It's enough that he'd be willing to give me the password. To me, that shows that there's nothing in there for me to worry about.

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Badtrainwreck t1_iuk5xfs wrote

I’ve shared my password with partners and we’ve both looked at messages but i don’t think it was ever out of suspicion of the other. I just wanted them to have my stuff so they never had to question it. When you got nothing to hide and aren’t in a toxic controlling relationship open communication can actually be pretty great. Even if someone never uses it I liked that they could be confident they had my permission.

This does not mean this is always healthy, it does not mean I’d always recommend others do it

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Murky_Anxiety4884 t1_iuk61ea wrote

No. I wouldn't go through my partner's garbage bags either if I were offered those.

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YokieZero t1_iuk654g wrote

Nope and I wouldn't want it in the first place.

Sharing password just lead to trust issues. Or start being controlling.

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xvszero t1_iuk6npq wrote

No. I wouldn't take their password either.

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tymacpherson t1_iuk6o6h wrote

No I would not. What they did before me is none of my business.

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Creative_Recover t1_iuk7u5q wrote

I wouldn't want the password to my partners social media, they're entitled to their privacy (and I trust them).

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shrimpfajita t1_iukb62q wrote

I have nothing to gain from that so no. If you overthink, that can only be worsened. Get it together

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