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NULS89 t1_iuk4qed wrote

Do you drink a lot so that this is something that keeps happening?

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[deleted] OP t1_iuk4uiy wrote

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NULS89 t1_iuk628m wrote

Okay. So it seems that you don’t have a “problem.”

You’re very young, and frankly, it may not be popular to say this but if this is the worst thing that you’ve done with your BF, it’s not a big deal. That’s based on not knowing what you said.

So, just talk to him. Apologize for your behavior and for scaring him. Explain you understand your limits now and will be mindful of these limits going forward.

Edited for correct word.

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jalzyr t1_iuk5bcr wrote

Just ask him to communicate with you about how he feels because this relationship means something to you.

You’ve apologized and let him know the changes you’ve made.

If he continues to be distant let him know you’re right here for when he is ready and you understand.

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Lou_Dorsett t1_iuk6vbk wrote

If he's not seen you like that before then you really degraded yourself in his eyes.

You learned that drinking is not for you. If you don't understand this, then read through the posts on here. An awful lot are about things that only happened because of drinking by people who can't handle alcohol. No shame in learning so you can be your best.

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Darthkhydaeus t1_iuk89ma wrote

What did you say? That matters. If it was like he has the smallest dick I've ever seen or I always fake it with you etc then he may never forgive you.

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