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MarriedLife7 t1_iui2sn8 wrote

No you are not crazy. This could be emotional cheating and probably is. The fact is you know what is going on and your wife is refusing to accept that it is inappropriate and be open with it. If she would show you all her conversations it would be one thing but it isn't happening.

I would demand marital counseling and if she refuses and doesn't change her behavior consider a divorce.

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Wolfos663 OP t1_iuiezd4 wrote

Thank you for your comment. In the past I was asking her to show me the texts and she was overall more open about it, but she always disliked when I wanted to see them. If I ask for them now, I'm sure it wil turn into a fight.

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MarriedLife7 t1_iuifzav wrote

So that is where the marital counseling comes into play. You don't have to demand she show them now but say this issue is driving a wedge in your marriage and you want her to go to therapy to help resolve these issues.

If she says you just need to do it yourself and alone then again you have your answer on her priorities. Partner's need to support each other even if one person thinks it isn't a big deal.

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Wolfos663 OP t1_iuig498 wrote

Ok thank you, your advice was very helpful

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