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carlorway t1_iui4vg6 wrote

You won't get over it until she is completely honest and trustworthy to you. Ask her to hand over her phone without warning. Read the messages before she can delete them. They are not platonic if she is hiding them.

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Wolfos663 OP t1_iuif9e9 wrote

Isn't it a bit too controling? I mean I want to allow her some privacy too and I don't want to be like a policeman who will check her phone whenever he wants.

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carlorway t1_iuiwtgw wrote

She is hiding and lying (by omission). I don't think anything is too controlling in this situation. If she has integrity and is honest, she will give you her phone without a fight.

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