Wolfos663 OP t1_iuiezd4 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 3:54 PM

Reply to comment by MarriedLife7 in My (32M) wife (34F) is best friends with older guy she's attracted to by Wolfos663

Thank you for your comment. In the past I was asking her to show me the texts and she was overall more open about it, but she always disliked when I wanted to see them. If I ask for them now, I'm sure it wil turn into a fight.

MarriedLife7 t1_iuifzav wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:01 PM

So that is where the marital counseling comes into play. You don't have to demand she show them now but say this issue is driving a wedge in your marriage and you want her to go to therapy to help resolve these issues.

If she says you just need to do it yourself and alone then again you have your answer on her priorities. Partner's need to support each other even if one person thinks it isn't a big deal.

Wolfos663 OP t1_iuig498 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:02 PM

Ok thank you, your advice was very helpful