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UsuallyWrite2 t1_iuiyetg wrote

Reply to comment by mganga_mzungu in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu

“Father said I’m not welcome on the group call as I am not interested in having a relationship with brother. I would still like to talk to you directly though.

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mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuiz4on wrote

She's super picky about what words I use... I just think if I say 'not welcome' she will somehow either use that against me or make it an even bigger problem. Honestly I couldn't care less about being on the call or not

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inna_hey t1_iujduzi wrote

i'm not sure how we as a bunch of strangers are supposed to help you with your mom's weird hyper-specific word policing

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sarilarifari5 t1_iuizzgh wrote

Than just don't do the calls and let your father explain it to her.

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Bandage-Bob t1_iuj6jeb wrote

It sounds like she's miserable to deal with as well so why haven't you just gone LC or NC with her as well?

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knittedjedi t1_iuk21gz wrote

That's nice. You can still have am adult conversation with her.

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