Please, you must leave him. He uses you. He is abusive to you. Why are you even with him? You are so much more worth.

Stop paying for him or giving him money. Stop lifting a finger for him. He is an adult sitting the whole day on his lazy ass. You need to break up. But don't do it alone. Since he is abusive, you never know how he react. Have a friend with you. And then tell him that he need to pack his shit and needs to leave. I guess the lease is on you?